Fetal Ejection Reflex

Dr. Sarah Buckley is a trained General Practitioner in New Zealand who is qualified in obstetrics and family planning. She advocates for homebirth, having had her own four children at home. On her episode of The Ultimate Health Podcast, she discusses a small portion of the information she has on the hormonal physiology of labor. More of her experience and knowledge on pregnancy and childrearing can be found in her book, “Gentle Birth, Gentle Mothering” her report, “Hormonal Physiology of Childbearing ” , or by checking out her website at .  During the podcast episode, she said something striking and worth talking more about, “every extra person at the labor adds an hour to it”. 

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from Dr. Buckley’s facebook page: @drsarahbuckley


This was a lighthearted and not exactly scientific way of summing up a very important concept to understand about labor: if the birth-person is undisturbed and feels safe and comfortable, the labor could naturally occur with relative ease. Likewise, if that person is being probed and interrupted by a bunch of strangers, they might never experience what Dr. Buckley talks about as the “fetal ejection reflex”. 

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Happy World Breastfeeding Week!

Poster taken from the World Breastfeeding Week campaign resources 

As a birth-person’s body has been maintaining and closely interacting with the baby for nine entire months, it has had plenty of time to create the perfect potion to nourish that baby. Breast milk has the right set of microorganisms, vitamins, and minerals that the baby needs. Most organizations and medical professionals agree with The World Health Organization’s (WHO) stance on breastfeeding: “Exclusive breastfeeding is recommended up to 6 months of age, with continued breastfeeding along with appropriate complementary foods up to two years of age or beyond.” It is also very important to begin breastfeeding during the baby’s first hour after birth.  Continue reading “Happy World Breastfeeding Week!”

Birth Around the World: The Netherlands

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The midwives of the Netherlands are proud to have the highest rate of home births in the world, being that 30 percent of all births happen at home. The rest of births are mostly at birthing centers with only a small portion occurring in hospitals. The out-of-hospital birth is generally the default option for pregnant people in the Netherlands, but if pregnancies are deemed to be high-risk, then a birth person might be referred to a gynecologist. Once assessed by the gynecologist, they may often still suggest a homebirth, assuming that after a few check-ins and careful monitoring, their risks remain low. In any case, a midwife would be responsible for checkups until labor and will lead the birth in or out of the hospital.  Continue reading “Birth Around the World: The Netherlands”

Thoughtful Word Choice

Inarguably, language is a tool, and our word choice transmits thoughts, ideas, and preconceptions. Author Austin Channing Brown writes in her book, “I’m Still Here: Black Dignity in a World Made for Whiteness”, about being seven years old and understanding that her parents had named her with the hopes to pass at least the resumé-reading phase of job searches as a white man. Unfortunately, job applications can be tossed-aside simply because of the name at the top of the page. If even the very name of an individual paints a picture for us as to who they are or what they are capable of doing, then pronouns certainly do as well.  Continue reading “Thoughtful Word Choice”

Client Highlight: Where are they Now?

Adilah Yelton, a Birth and Postpartum Doula


-1168074907269629972.jpgChildbirth and care is not a simple job! That’s why they say it takes a village, and Adilah would agree. Handling life with a toddler and a newborn baby, although a very rewarding and a positive experience, came with many challenges. Even with her and her husband’s parents there to help, she still felt that she needed some extra hands on deck. Especially because she struggled to find the time to take care of her own needs, she decided to hire a postpartum doula. As a guest on the podcast, My Happy Home Birth, she shares the importance of self-care postpartum, and how a postpartum doula can help you relax and heal in ways that are truly necessary after giving birth. 


She also discusses her home birth experience that she had with Midwifery Care NYC during her first pregnancy four years ago. Adilah herself is now a birth and postpartum doula, working out of Houston, Texas. We are so proud and excited to see her thriving as an advocate for the health and autonomy of birth-people.  Learn more about the services she offers at her website: and follow her on instagram @ibudoula ! 




Written by Gabrielle Cappelletti, the intern.

Baby’s First Breath

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A desperate mother is rushed into a hospital…

The most panic inducing Hollywood moment happens every few seasons of any binge-worthy doctor drama. A desperate mother is rushed into a hospital with only a few moments to go before immediately being encouraged to push. The following scene sets the audience and the characters up to believe that the trauma is over and that the parents can now just rest with their newborn and start fighting over names. But alas, the most terrifying sound is all the mother can focus on: absolute silence. The baby hasn’t cried and the mother is traumatized once more.  Continue reading “Baby’s First Breath”

Happy Global Hug Your Kids Day!


MCNYC midwife, Carol, hugging Angelina a few days before Declan was born.

This year on July 15th we are celebrating Global Hug Your Kids Day. This holiday was started by Michelle Nichols in 2008, a decade after her son Mark tragically died of brain cancer at the age of 8 ½. It is meant to be an annual reminder of the importance of being affectionate with your kids. It is also a really good time to reflect on why skin-to-skin contact is so valuable, especially at birth!

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